“I don’t fix people. I walk with them as they remember who they’ve always been—beneath the coping, the performance, and the pressure to be someone else. This is not about bypassing your pain or becoming a better version of yourself. It’s about becoming more real. More rooted. More human.”
Not another self-help promise.
No toxic posivity.
Not a spiritual or philosophical bypass.
No bullshit.
This is for the ones who want to feel real again.
I'm Gary Lougher—coach, guide, and author of Rewilding Your Soul. What I offer is different. I walk with those ready to return to the ground of their own truth. After years of healing, striving, manifesting, and spiritual contorting, I realized something: the problem wasn’t that I was broken. The problem was that I thought I had to transcend my humanity to be whole. Now, I work with people who are done performing growth and ready to live aligned with what’s real. This is the Second Ascent—not a climb above the mess of life, but a reclaiming of what was buried beneath it.
We might be a fit if...
You’ve tried the self-help books. The programs. The journaling.
You’ve done the meditations, the mindset work, the trauma deep-dives.
And you’re still wondering:
Why does it all feel so far away from who I really am?
If you’re ready to stop seeking and start showing up as you are—without the masks, the mantras, or the pressure to be “more evolved”—this space is for you.
The Invitation
This isn’t traditional coaching.
It's a conversation with your real self—the one that was never broken. Just buried.
If you’re feeling the pull to return to your own voice…
If you’re done with spiritual bypass and ready to live something honest…
I work with people who are done performing and pretending. I don’t offer programs—I build coaching relationships as unique as the person sitting across from me. If you’re ready for deep, lasting change, I’m all in—but you have to be, too.
It’s a big decision—and it should be.
That’s why I created a free mini-course to help you slow down, get honest, and explore whether coaching is right for you.
No pressure. Just perspective.
👉 Explore the Free Course Is Coaching for Me?
Or are you ready to jump right in?
👉 Complete the Coaching Alignment Form
If it feels aligned for both of us, we’ll move forward.
